My husband announced it on a Sunday night in September, standing in our kitchen with his arms folded.<\/p>\n
From now on, every dollar I earned in tips belonged in the household jar. Every single one. No more keeping a little back for gas or lunch or Ava\u2019s school stuff. All of it went in the jar, and he would decide how much I could take back out.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s all family money, Lita,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m not controlling you. I\u2019m just keeping things organized.\u201d<\/p>\n
I was still in my work clothes. Black pants, black shirt with the steakhouse logo on the pocket, the black apron with the two deep front pockets. My feet hurt. I\u2019d worked a double. Eleven hours on a<\/p>\n
Sunday, which is the busiest day of the week at Gallagher\u2019s Steakhouse on Route 23.<\/p>\n
I looked at him for a long moment.<\/p>\n
Then I smiled.<\/p>\n
I emptied my apron pockets onto the kitchen table. Crumpled twenties and tens and fives and ones, all mixed together, the way tips come out at the end of a shift. A few quarters. A folded fifty somebody left under a plate.<\/p>\n
I counted it out right there in front of him. Stacked by denomination. Out loud.<\/p>\n
\u201cTwo hundred and eleven,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
Then I picked it up and dropped it into the glass jar on the counter.<\/p>\n
Duane nodded, satisfied. He went back to the living room and turned on the Browns game.<\/p>\n
I stood at the kitchen counter for a while, looking at the jar.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a big glass jar. The kind you buy pickles in at Sam\u2019s Club. We\u2019d been using it for eleven years. It sat<\/p>\n
on the counter next to the coffee maker, and every night when I came home I dropped my tips in it.<\/p>\n
Every Sunday night, Duane counted it. And wrote the total on the little whiteboard stuck to the side of the refrigerator with magnets.<\/p>\n
What Duane didn\u2019t know was that I\u2019d been recording every dollar I earned for eleven years.<\/p>\n
Every shift. Every tip. Every single night.<\/p>\n
And for the past twenty-two weeks, exactly forty dollars had disappeared from that jar every single<\/p>\n
Sunday.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say anything that night. I went upstairs and took a shower and got into bed and lay there in the dark, listening to the Browns lose through the floor.<\/p>\n
But in my purse, on the dresser, there was a small black notebook.<\/p>\n
And it was full of numbers.<\/p>\n
Chapter Two: The Black Notebooks<\/p>\n
My name is Carlotta Reyes Kowalski. Everyone calls me Lita.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m thirty-nine. I was born in Toledo to a Puerto Rican mother and a Polish father, and I grew up in a house where money was always tight and always counted. My mother cleaned offices downtown. My father worked at the Jeep plant. They kept their money in an envelope in a kitchen drawer, and<\/p>\n
every Friday night they sat at the table and counted it together.<\/p>\n
Together. That\u2019s the part I remember.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve worked as a waitress at the same steakhouse in Chillicothe, Ohio, for eleven years.<\/p>\n
Gallagher\u2019s. A family place with red leather booths and white tablecloths and a salad bar with a sneeze guard that\u2019s been there since 1987. People come for the prime rib on Saturdays. Anniversary dinners. Prom dates. Retirement parties. Funeral lunches.<\/p>\n
I\u2019m good at it. I\u2019ll say that plainly. I remember names. I remember who wants extra horseradish and who\u2019s allergic to shellfish and whose husband just died. I\u2019ve got regulars who won\u2019t sit in anybody else\u2019s section.<\/p>\n
On a busy Saturday, I sometimes earn more in tips than Duane makes during an entire shift at the plant.<\/p>\n
But his family doesn\u2019t know that.<\/p>\n
Duane works at the paper mill on the edge of town. Twelve-hour shifts, rotating. He makes good money. Twenty-six dollars an hour, plus overtime.<\/p>\n
But some Saturdays, I make three hundred dollars in tips in a single double. Some Mother\u2019s Days, I<\/p>\n
make five hundred.<\/p>\n
Duane doesn\u2019t like people to know that.<\/p>\n
Duane prefers telling everyone that he provides for our household while I merely help with expenses.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve heard him say it. At his mother\u2019s house at Thanksgiving. At the Moose Lodge. At church.<\/p>\n
\u201cLita helps out,\u201d he says. \u201cShe\u2019s got her little job at the steakhouse.\u201d<\/p>\n
Her little job.<\/p>\n
His mother, Dolores, once asked whether the restaurant actually allowed waitresses to keep their tips.<\/p>\n
That was at Easter, three years ago. Dolores is seventy-one. She\u2019s lived her whole life in Chillicothe.<\/p>\n
She calls me \u201cthe waitress\u201d when she thinks I can\u2019t hear.<\/p>\n
\u201cDo they let you keep that money?\u201d she asked me, at her dining room table, passing the ham. \u201cThe tips? Or does the restaurant take it?\u201d<\/p>\n
I laughed politely because arguing never seemed worth the trouble.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe keep it, Dolores,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cHm,\u201d she said. And passed me the green beans.<\/p>\n
Our arrangement had started simply enough.<\/p>\n
When we got married, fourteen years ago, we sat at the kitchen table in our first apartment and figured it out. I\u2019d put my tips in a jar. He\u2019d deposit his paycheck into our joint account at the credit<\/p>\n
union.<\/p>\n
Then, every week, the jar money would go into the joint account too. And we\u2019d pay everything out of there. Mortgage. Groceries. Electric. Car insurance. Ava\u2019s braces. Ava\u2019s softball fees. Ava\u2019s everything.<\/p>\n
Ava is sixteen now. A junior at Chillicothe High. She plays shortstop and wants to be a physical therapist.<\/p>\n
Every Sunday, Duane counted the jar.<\/p>\n
That was his job. He liked doing it. He\u2019d sit at the kitchen table with the jar and sort the bills into stacks and count them and write the total on the whiteboard. Then on Monday, he\u2019d take the money to the credit union and deposit it.<\/p>\n
I never questioned it. Why would I? He\u2019s my husband. It\u2019s our money.<\/p>\n
But every waitress I know counts her money before she leaves work.<\/p>\n
It\u2019s a habit. You learn it your first week. At the end of every shift, you sit down in the back booth with<\/p>\n
your apron and you count your tips before you leave the building. You write it down. Partly for your taxes, because the IRS wants to know. Partly because if something\u2019s missing, you want to know right away.<\/p>\n
I kept a small black notebook in my purse, recording my tips after every shift.<\/p>\n
The cheap kind, from the Dollar General. Three for two dollars. Black cover, lined pages.<\/p>\n
Date. Shift. Tables. Cash tips. Credit card tips. Total.<\/p>\n
Over eleven years, those notebooks had become a detailed history of my earnings.<\/p>\n
I\u2019ve filled thirty-four of them. They\u2019re in a shoebox on the top shelf of my closet. Every dollar I\u2019ve earned since the day I started at Gallagher\u2019s.<\/p>\n
One Sunday in August, Duane wrote $1,240 on the whiteboard.<\/p>\n
I was getting a glass of water. I glanced at it. Something about the number bothered me. I didn\u2019t know why at first.<\/p>\n
I went upstairs and got my notebook out of my purse. I added up the week.<\/p>\n
My notebook showed I\u2019d contributed $1,280.<\/p>\n
Forty dollars.<\/p>\n
I thought maybe I\u2019d made a mistake. Maybe I\u2019d forgotten to drop one night in the jar. Maybe I\u2019d spent some on gas.<\/p>\n
So I checked the week before.<\/p>\n
The previous week, he\u2019d recorded $1,190 when I\u2019d actually brought home $1,230.<\/p>\n
Forty dollars again.<\/p>\n
I sat on the edge of my bed with the notebook in my lap. Then I got up and went into my closet and<\/p>\n
took down the shoebox.<\/p>\n
I checked twenty-two consecutive weeks.<\/p>\n
I went back to March. I compared every week in my notebook to every number I could remember<\/p>\n
Duane writing on the whiteboard. I\u2019d taken pictures of the whiteboard sometimes, on my phone, to send to Ava when she asked about money for softball. I scrolled through my photos and found eleven of them.<\/p>\n
Every single one was short by forty dollars.<\/p>\n
That added up to eight hundred and eighty dollars.<\/p>\n
Chapter Three: Forty Bucks<\/p>\n
On Monday evening, I placed my notebook beside the jar.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say anything at first. I just set it there. Open. On the counter, next to the jar, where he\u2019d see it when he came in from his shift.<\/p>\n
He came in at six-thirty. He hung his jacket on the hook. He went straight to the refrigerator for a beer.<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t notice the notebook.<\/p>\n
I waited until he sat down in front of the TV.<\/p>\n
\u201cDuane,\u201d I said. \u201cWhy does the board say twelve-forty when I put in twelve-eighty?\u201d<\/p>\n
He barely glanced up from the television.<\/p>\n
\u201cProbably counted wrong.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019ve counted exactly forty dollars too little for twenty-two weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n
He sighed. The big sigh. The one that means I\u2019m being unreasonable.<\/p>\n
\u201cSeriously, Lita? You\u2019re making a big deal over forty bucks?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s eight hundred and eighty dollars.\u201d<\/p>\n
His expression changed.<\/p>\n
Just for a second. Something went across his face. Fast. Like a shadow over a field. Then it was gone, and he was frowning at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019ve been keeping track?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m a waitress,\u201d I said. \u201cCounting money is part of my job.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf the jar?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf my tips. Every shift. For eleven years.\u201d I picked up the notebook from the counter and held it up.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s all in here. And thirty-three more just like it.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stared at the notebook.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo what?\u201d he said. \u201cSo I counted wrong. So I\u2019m a little off. I\u2019ve got a lot on my mind, Lita. I work<\/p>\n
twelve-hour shifts.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cTwenty-two weeks in a row,\u201d I said. \u201cExactly forty. Not thirty-nine. Not forty-one. Forty.\u201d<\/p>\n
He muttered something about trust and returned to watching television.<\/p>\n
I stood there in the kitchen doorway for a long time. He didn\u2019t look at me again. He turned up the volume.<\/p>\n
I went upstairs.<\/p>\n
Ava was in her room with her door open, doing homework on her bed. She looked up when I passed.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom? What\u2019s going on? Why\u2019s Dad mad?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cHe\u2019s not mad, honey,\u201d I said. \u201cWe\u2019re just talking about money.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at me for a long moment. She\u2019s sixteen. She\u2019s not stupid.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
Chapter Four: The Locker<\/p>\n
The next evening, I left my tips in a sealed envelope inside my locker at work.<\/p>\n
Gallagher\u2019s has a little room in the back by the kitchen with eight metal lockers for the servers. Mine is number four. It has a combination lock my mother gave me when I was in high school.<\/p>\n
I counted my tips that night like always. One hundred and eighty-four dollars. I wrote it in my notebook. Then I put the money in a plain white envelope and licked it shut and wrote the date on the front.<\/p>\n
And I put it in my locker. And locked it.<\/p>\n
I drove home with my apron pockets empty.<\/p>\n
The jar sat on the counter that night with nothing new in it.<\/p>\n
I did the same thing Wednesday morning. A lunch shift. Ninety-two dollars. Envelope. Date. Locker.<\/p>\n
On Wednesday, Duane noticed.<\/p>\n
He was standing at the counter when I came home, looking at the jar. It was still at the same level it<\/p>\n
had been on Monday.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhere\u2019s yesterday\u2019s money?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSomewhere safe.\u201d<\/p>\n
He frowned.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat does that mean?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt means I\u2019m not contributing another dollar until you explain what\u2019s missing.\u201d<\/p>\n
His face went red. Fast. All the way up to his hairline.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re treating me like a thief,\u201d he said. \u201cIn my own house. Like I\u2019m some kind of criminal.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not treating you like anything, Duane.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cYou\u2019re hiding money from me.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m keeping my money in my locker,\u201d I said. \u201cUntil somebody tells me where eight hundred and eighty dollars went.\u201d<\/p>\n
He accused me of treating him like a thief.<\/p>\n
I told him I was asking for an explanation, not permission.<\/p>\n
He stood there in the kitchen with his fists clenched. For a second, I thought he was going to yell.<\/p>\n
Duane doesn\u2019t yell much. But when he does, the windows rattle.<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t. He grabbed his keys off the hook by the door. He went out to his truck. I heard it start up and back out of the driveway too fast.<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t come home until after midnight.<\/p>\n
Ava came downstairs after he left. She stood in the kitchen doorway in her softball sweatshirt.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom,\u201d she said. \u201cWhat\u2019s going on? For real.\u201d<\/p>\n
I thought about what to tell her. I thought about lying. I thought about saying it was nothing, grown-up stuff, don\u2019t worry about it.<\/p>\n
But I\u2019d been raised in a house where people counted money together at the kitchen table. Where<\/p>\n
nothing was hidden.<\/p>\n
\u201cSomebody\u2019s been taking forty dollars out of the jar,\u201d I said. \u201cEvery week. For twenty-two weeks.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ava\u2019s face changed.<\/p>\n
\u201cNot me,\u201d she said quickly. \u201cMom, I swear. I would never.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI know, baby,\u201d I said. \u201cI know it\u2019s not you.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at the door Duane just went out of. Then back at me.<\/p>\n
She didn\u2019t say anything else. But I watched her understand.<\/p>\n
Chapter Five: Tina<\/p>\n
Thursday afternoon, a regular customer named Tina came into the steakhouse with her sister.<\/p>\n
Tina Sutherland. She\u2019s maybe fifty-five. She comes in every Thursday at two o\u2019clock for the soup and salad bar. Always sits in my section. Always orders the French onion and a Diet Coke with extra ice.<\/p>\n
Her husband, Burt, worked at the same plant as Duane.<\/p>\n
I knew Burt. Big man, bald, with a gray goatee. He worked maintenance at the paper mill. He and Duane bowled together on the plant team for a few years, before Duane quit.<\/p>\n
When I brought their coffee, Tina leaned closer.<\/p>\n
She waited until her sister went up to the salad bar. Then she put her hand on my arm.<\/p>\n
\u201cLita,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cThere\u2019s something you ought to know.\u201d<\/p>\n
My stomach tightened. I didn\u2019t know why. Something in her face.<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
She explained that Burt had repeatedly seen Duane buying forty dollars\u2019 worth of scratch-off lottery tickets at a gas station near the plant.<\/p>\n
The Speedway on Bridge Street. Right outside the plant gates. Where every guy on the shift stops for coffee and cigarettes on the way in.<\/p>\n
Every Monday.<\/p>\n
Since spring.<\/p>\n
I gripped my order pad.<\/p>\n
Every Monday. The day he took the jar money to the credit union.<\/p>\n
Forty dollars.<\/p>\n
\u201cSince spring?\u201d I said. My voice sounded strange to me. \u201cWhen in spring?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMarch, Burt thinks,\u201d Tina said. \u201cMaybe April. He said Duane started buying them right after Easter.<\/p>\n
The big ones. Ten-dollar tickets. Four at a time.\u201d<\/p>\n
March. Twenty-two weeks.<\/p>\n
\u201cHas he ever won anything?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
Tina hesitated.<\/p>\n
She looked over at the salad bar, where her sister was taking a long time choosing croutons. She looked back at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s the strange part,\u201d she said. \u201cBurt said he won four thousand dollars back in June. The station even put his picture on the wall.\u201d<\/p>\n
June.<\/p>\n
I stood there holding the coffeepot. Somebody at table nine was waving at me for a refill. I didn\u2019t move.<\/p>\n
That was the month Duane told me his truck needed an expensive transmission repair and insisted<\/p>\n
we cut back on spending.<\/p>\n
Chapter Six: June<\/p>\n
I remember June very clearly.<\/p>\n
Duane came home from work on a Thursday and sat down at the kitchen table with his head in his hands.<\/p>\n
\u201cTransmission\u2019s going on the truck,\u201d he said. \u201cI took it to Fred\u2019s on Western Avenue. He says it\u2019s thirty-<\/p>\n
two hundred, maybe more. And it\u2019s got to be done. I can\u2019t get to work without it.\u201d<\/p>\n
His truck is a 2016 Silverado. It has a hundred and forty thousand miles on it.<\/p>\n
I believed him. Why wouldn\u2019t I?<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019ve got to tighten up,\u201d Duane said. \u201cEverything. No eating out. No extras. I\u2019m going to pay for it out of the joint account, so the jar needs to be fuller. Can you pick up some shifts?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOf course,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d picked up three extra shifts to help cover the supposed expense.<\/p>\n
Three doubles. Eleven hours each. Three Sundays in a row in June.<\/p>\n
I missed Ava\u2019s softball tournament for one of them. The district semifinals in Circleville. She went<\/p>\n
three for four and made a diving catch at short to end the game.<\/p>\n
I saw it on video. On my phone. In the back room at Gallagher\u2019s, on my break, standing next to the walk-in cooler with my feet aching.<\/p>\n
She looked for me in the stands. You can see it on the video. After the catch, she turns around and looks at the bleachers.<\/p>\n
I wasn\u2019t there.<\/p>\n
And the transmission.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d never seen a bill. I\u2019d never seen a receipt. Duane said he paid Fred cash. He said Fred gave him a discount for cash.<\/p>\n
I never asked to see it. Why would I? He\u2019s my husband.<\/p>\n
The truck ran fine in June. It ran fine in July. It\u2019s running fine now.<\/p>\n
I finished serving Tina\u2019s table without mentioning another word.<\/p>\n
I refilled their coffees. I brought her French onion soup. I brought her sister a second plate from the salad bar. I smiled.<\/p>\n
I know how to smile. Eleven years of waiting tables teaches you that. You smile at the man who<\/p>\n
sends back his steak three times. You smile at the family whose kids throw crackers on the floor. You smile at the table that leaves a dollar on a sixty-dollar check.<\/p>\n
When Tina paid her bill, she left me a twenty on a fourteen-dollar check. She squeezed my hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m sorry, honey,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cThank you for telling me, Tina.\u201d<\/p>\n
Chapter Seven: The Gas Station<\/p>\n
The following morning, I drove to the gas station.<\/p>\n
The Speedway on Bridge Street. Right across from the paper mill gates. I got there at nine-fifteen. Duane\u2019s shift started at six. He\u2019d be inside the plant until six tonight.<\/p>\n
I parked by the air pump. I sat there in my car for a long time.<\/p>\n
Then I went inside.<\/p>\n
Behind the counter was a photograph of Duane smiling proudly beside a ceremonial check for four<\/p>\n
thousand dollars.<\/p>\n
It was on a corkboard on the wall behind the register, next to the cigarettes. A whole board of them. Pictures of winners. The Speedway puts them up to sell more tickets.<\/p>\n
Most of them were small. Fifty dollars. A hundred. A guy with a five-hundred-dollar check. A woman with a thousand.<\/p>\n
And right in the middle, the biggest one. Duane. In his paper mill work shirt. Grinning ear to ear.<\/p>\n
Holding a big cardboard check from the Ohio Lottery that said FOUR THOUSAND DOLLARS AND 00\/100.<\/p>\n
It was dated June 9th.<\/p>\n
I stood in front of that counter and stared at it.<\/p>\n
I hadn\u2019t seen my husband smile like that in years. Not at our anniversary dinner. Not at Ava\u2019s birthday. Not at Christmas.<\/p>\n
That smile.<\/p>\n
The clerk remembered him immediately.<\/p>\n
A young guy, maybe twenty-five. Skinny, with a scruffy beard and a Speedway polo shirt. His name<\/p>\n
tag said KYLE.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s Duane,\u201d he said, when he saw me looking. \u201cGreat guy. Comes in every Monday. You know him?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m his wife,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
Kyle\u2019s face did something funny. Just for a second.<\/p>\n
\u201cOh,\u201d he said. \u201cCool. Yeah. He was pretty excited that day. Hit it on a Monday morning before his shift.<\/p>\n
Ten-dollar Cash Explosion ticket. Four grand. He couldn\u2019t believe it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDid he say what he was going to do with it?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
I tried to make it sound casual. Like I was just curious. Like it was nothing.<\/p>\n
Kyle shrugged.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe said he was saving that money for his girl,\u201d the man explained.<\/p>\n
I felt my stomach tighten.<\/p>\n
His girl.<\/p>\n
Duane had never mentioned the winnings.<\/p>\n
And he certainly hadn\u2019t bought anything expensive for me. Not in June. Not in July. Not ever.<\/p>\n
Then the clerk added something that made me forget about the missing eight hundred and eighty dollars.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe showed me her picture on his phone,\u201d Kyle said. \u201cSeemed pretty proud of her.\u201d<\/p>\n
I put my hand on the counter. I needed to hold onto something.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat did she look like?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
Kyle looked uncomfortable now. He looked at the door. Like he wished somebody would come in.<\/p>\n
\u201cUh,\u201d he said. \u201cI don\u2019t know. Young? Like early twenties, maybe? Dark hair. Long. Pretty. She had on some kind of uniform. Black shirt. Like a restaurant.\u201d He scratched his beard. \u201cShe had a little tattoo. On her wrist. A little bird. I remember because my sister has the same one.\u201d<\/p>\n
As he spoke, I realized I knew exactly who he was talking about.<\/p>\n
A little swallow. Inside her left wrist. I\u2019d noticed it the first day I trained her.<\/p>\n
And she\u2019d been sitting at my kitchen table just two weeks earlier, thanking me for helping her pay her<\/p>\n
rent.<\/p>\n
Chapter Eight: Jenna<\/p>\n
Her name is Jenna Marsh. She\u2019s twenty-two.<\/p>\n
She started at Gallagher\u2019s in April. As a hostess first. Then a busser. Then, in July, Big Frank, the manager, asked me to train her as a server.<\/p>\n
I liked her right away. She was quick and she was polite and she never complained. She remembered<\/p>\n
table numbers on her first day. She had long dark hair she wore in a braid and big brown eyes and a little swallow tattooed on the inside of her left wrist.<\/p>\n
She\u2019d moved to Chillicothe from Indiana in March. By herself. She didn\u2019t know anybody in town.<\/p>\n
I took her under my wing. That\u2019s what you do. Some old waitress did it for me eleven years ago, when I was twenty-eight and had a five-year-old at home and no idea what I was doing.<\/p>\n
I taught Jenna how to carry four plates at once. How to read a table, to know which ones want to chat<\/p>\n
and which ones want to be left alone. How to handle the man who snaps his fingers at you. How to count your tips before you leave and write them down in a notebook.<\/p>\n
I bought her one. A black one from Dollar General.<\/p>\n
Two weeks ago, she was short on her rent.<\/p>\n
She told me in the back room, crying. Her landlord was going to evict her. She was three hundred dollars short. She had nobody to ask.<\/p>\n
So I invited her home for supper after our shift. I made arroz con pollo, my mother\u2019s recipe. Ava was there. Duane was there.<\/p>\n
After supper, I gave Jenna three hundred dollars. Cash. Out of my own pocket. Out of my tips. I didn\u2019t<\/p>\n
put it in the jar that night.<\/p>\n
She cried at my kitchen table and hugged me and said she\u2019d pay me back. I said don\u2019t worry about it.<\/p>\n
And Duane.<\/p>\n
I remembered now. Sitting in my car in the Speedway parking lot. I remembered how strange he\u2019d been that night.<\/p>\n
He barely said a word all through supper. He kept looking at Jenna across the table. When she<\/p>\n
laughed at something Ava said, he got up and went into the kitchen and stood at the sink for a long time.<\/p>\n
When I handed her the three hundred dollars, he left the room.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d thought he was annoyed. About the money. About me giving it away without asking him.<\/p>\n
Now I thought something else.<\/p>\n
He was saving that money for his girl.<\/p>\n
He showed me her picture on his phone. Seemed pretty proud of her.<\/p>\n
Young. Dark hair. Long. Pretty.<\/p>\n
A little bird on her wrist.<\/p>\n
I sat in the Speedway parking lot for forty-five minutes.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t cry. I want to be clear about that. I thought I would. I sat there with my hands on the steering wheel waiting for it.<\/p>\n
It didn\u2019t come.<\/p>\n
What came instead was something cold and clear and steady. The same thing that comes over me on a Saturday night at Gallagher\u2019s when the kitchen\u2019s backed up forty minutes and I\u2019ve got eight<\/p>\n
tables and somebody\u2019s yelling about their steak.<\/p>\n
You count it. You write it down. You deal with it.<\/p>\n
I drove home. I went upstairs to my closet. I got down the shoebox.<\/p>\n
I took out all thirty-four black notebooks. I laid them out on my bed in order. Eleven years.<\/p>\n
Then I took out a fresh one. The thirty-fifth.<\/p>\n
On the first page, I wrote:<\/p>\n
$880. Jar. March to September.
\n$4,000. Lottery. June 9.
\n$3,200. Transmission. June. No receipt.<\/p>\n
3 extra doubles. June. Missed Ava\u2019s semifinal.
\n$300. Rent. Jenna. September.<\/p>\n
I looked at that list for a long time.<\/p>\n
Then I picked up my phone and texted Jenna.<\/p>\n
Can I come by your place tonight? I need to talk to you.<\/p>\n
Chapter Nine: The Swallow<\/p>\n
She lived in a little apartment above a nail salon on Paint Street. Two rooms, with a window that looked out at the Ross County courthouse.<\/p>\n
She opened the door before I knocked. She must have been watching from the window.<\/p>\n
She was still in her Gallagher\u2019s uniform. Black shirt, black pants. Her braid coming loose.<\/p>\n
She looked at my face. And I watched her know.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou found out,\u201d she said quietly.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t answer. I stood in her doorway with my purse on my shoulder and my thirty-fifth notebook inside it.<\/p>\n
\u201cCan I come in?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
She stepped back. She let me in.<\/p>\n
The apartment was tiny and clean. A futon. A card table with two folding chairs. A hot plate. A stack of textbooks on the floor by the futon. Anatomy and Physiology. Fundamentals of Nursing.<\/p>\n
On the card table, there was a framed photograph. I looked at it.<\/p>\n
It was Duane.<\/p>\n
Duane at maybe seventeen. Skinny. Long hair. A Chillicothe Cavaliers football jersey. With his arm<\/p>\n
around a girl with long dark hair and big brown eyes.<\/p>\n
I stood there and looked at that picture for a long time.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s my mom,\u201d Jenna said behind me. \u201cRachel Marsh. She went to Chillicothe High. She was a<\/p>\n
junior when that was taken. She got pregnant that spring.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t turn around. I couldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
\u201cHer parents moved her to Indiana,\u201d Jenna said. \u201cTo her aunt\u2019s in Terre Haute. Before she even started<\/p>\n
showing. They didn\u2019t want anybody to know. She had me there in December.\u201d<\/p>\n
I finally turned around.<\/p>\n
Jenna was standing by the door with her arms wrapped around herself. Her eyes were full.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe\u2019s my father, Lita,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n
I sat down on one of the folding chairs. My legs just went.<\/p>\n
She came and sat down across from me at the card table. With the picture between us.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom died in January,\u201d she said. \u201cBreast cancer. She was thirty-nine.\u201d She swallowed. \u201cYour age.\u201d<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe told me before she died,\u201d Jenna said. \u201cWho my father was. I never knew. My whole life, she said<\/p>\n
it was some boy from high school who didn\u2019t want anything to do with us. But at the end, in hospice, she told me his name. Duane Kowalski. Chillicothe, Ohio.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSo you came here,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cI found him on Facebook,\u201d Jenna said. \u201cI saw your picture. And Ava\u2019s. I saw you worked at Gallagher\u2019s. You\u2019d posted about it.\u201d She looked down at the table. \u201cI didn\u2019t know what else to do. I didn\u2019t have anybody. So I came.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd you got a job at my restaurant.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI wanted to see you,\u201d she said. \u201cBoth of you. Before I decided anything. I wanted to know if he was a good person. If you were. If I should even\u2026\u201d She stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhen did he find out?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cApril,\u201d Jenna said. \u201cI wrote him a letter. Sent it to the plant. I didn\u2019t want to send it to your house.\u201d She wiped her eyes. \u201cHe called me the next day. He drove up here after his shift. He sat right there on that<\/p>\n
futon and cried for an hour.\u201d<\/p>\n
She looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe didn\u2019t know, Lita. I swear. Mom never told him. Her parents never told him. He thought she just<\/p>\n
moved away.\u201d<\/p>\n
I sat there at that card table and tried to breathe.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd the lottery money,\u201d I said. \u201cThe four thousand.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jenna\u2019s face went red.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe gave it to me,\u201d she said quietly. \u201cIn June. For nursing school. At Hocking College. I start in January. It\u2019s for the deposit and my first semester books.\u201d She shook her head. \u201cI told him I couldn\u2019t take it. He<\/p>\n
said he won it. He said it was luck. He said it wasn\u2019t anybody\u2019s money but his.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cIt was my money,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
She looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cHe bought those tickets out of my tips,\u201d I said. \u201cForty dollars a week. Out of the jar. For twenty-two weeks. Without telling me. And then he told me his truck needed a transmission, and I picked up three extra shifts to pay for it. And I missed my daughter\u2019s softball game.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jenna\u2019s face went white.<\/p>\n
\u201cI didn\u2019t know,\u201d she whispered. \u201cLita. I swear to God. I didn\u2019t know where the money came from.\u201d<\/p>\n
She got up from the card table. She went to the futon. She reached under it and pulled out a little<\/p>\n
metal cash box, the kind you buy at Walmart.<\/p>\n
She opened it. She took out an envelope. She came back and set it on the table in front of me.<\/p>\n
\u201cIt\u2019s the three hundred,\u201d she said. \u201cFrom your kitchen. For my rent. I never used it. I got an extra shift<\/p>\n
and paid the landlord myself. I couldn\u2019t spend it.\u201d Her voice broke. \u201cNot after he looked at me like that at your table. I knew you didn\u2019t know. I knew he hadn\u2019t told you.\u201d<\/p>\n
I looked at the envelope. Then at her.<\/p>\n
Twenty-two years old. Her mother dead nine months. Alone in a town where nobody knew her. Sitting across from her father\u2019s wife, holding out three hundred dollars she hadn\u2019t spent.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy didn\u2019t he tell me?\u201d I asked. \u201cWhy didn\u2019t he just tell me?\u201d<\/p>\n
Jenna sat back down. She looked at the picture of her mother and her father at seventeen.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause he\u2019s scared of his mother,\u201d she said. \u201cIsn\u2019t he?\u201d<\/p>\n
Chapter Ten: Sunday Dinner<\/p>\n
Dolores knew.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s what came out. Not that night. On Sunday. At Dolores\u2019s dining room table. In front of everybody.<\/p>\n
I\u2019d thought about it for two days. About how to do it. About whether to just confront Duane alone, in our bedroom, with the door closed.<\/p>\n
But I\u2019d been married to Duane for fourteen years. And I knew how that would go. He\u2019d go quiet. He\u2019d<\/p>\n
say I was overreacting. He\u2019d go to his mother\u2019s. And Dolores would tell him it was none of my business.<\/p>\n
So I decided we\u2019d do it the way my parents did it. At the table. Together. Counting everything.<\/p>\n
Sunday dinner at Dolores\u2019s house is every week at four. Pot roast, always. Mashed potatoes. Green beans. Rolls from the Kroger bakery.<\/p>\n
Duane\u2019s sister, Karen, comes with her husband. Duane\u2019s brother, Mike, comes alone, because his<\/p>\n
wife won\u2019t. Ava comes because she has to.<\/p>\n
That Sunday, I brought a guest.<\/p>\n
Jenna stood next to me on Dolores\u2019s front porch in a navy blue dress she\u2019d bought at the Goodwill<\/p>\n
that morning. She was shaking so hard I could see it.<\/p>\n
\u201cI can\u2019t do this,\u201d she whispered.<\/p>\n
\u201cYes, you can,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cLita, she\u2019s going to hate me.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMaybe,\u201d I said. \u201cBut you\u2019re not the one who should be ashamed. Remember that.\u201d<\/p>\n
I rang the doorbell.<\/p>\n
Dolores opened it. She looked at me. She looked at Jenna.<\/p>\n
And her face went the color of the mashed potatoes.<\/p>\n
She knew. Right then. In one second. I watched it happen. She looked at Jenna\u2019s long dark hair and<\/p>\n
her big brown eyes and her face, and she knew exactly who she was looking at.<\/p>\n
Rachel Marsh\u2019s daughter.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat is this?\u201d Dolores said. Her voice was very quiet.<\/p>\n
\u201cThis is Jenna,\u201d I said. \u201cShe works with me at the steakhouse. I brought her for dinner.\u201d<\/p>\n
Duane was in the living room watching the pregame. He heard the door. He looked up.<\/p>\n
He saw Jenna.<\/p>\n
He stood up so fast he knocked over his beer.<\/p>\n
Nobody said anything for a long time.<\/p>\n
Karen and her husband were sitting on the couch. Mike was in the recliner. Ava was at the dining<\/p>\n
room table, setting out the forks.<\/p>\n
They all looked at Duane. At his beer soaking into his mother\u2019s carpet. At his face, gone completely white.<\/p>\n
Then they all looked at Jenna.<\/p>\n
\u201cLita,\u201d Duane said finally. His voice cracked. \u201cWhat are you doing?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019re going to have dinner,\u201d I said. \u201cAnd then we\u2019re going to count.\u201d<\/p>\n
I took my purse off my shoulder. I took out my thirty-fifth black notebook. I walked to the dining room table and set it down next to Dolores\u2019s good china.<\/p>\n
\u201cEverybody sit down,\u201d I said. \u201cPlease.\u201d<\/p>\n
Chapter Eleven: The Count<\/p>\n
They sat.<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t know why. Maybe because nobody had ever heard me talk like that. Maybe because Duane\u2019s<\/p>\n
face scared them. Maybe because Jenna was standing in the doorway in her Goodwill dress, and everybody at that table had seen that face before, a long time ago, in a high school yearbook.<\/p>\n
Dolores sat at the head of the table. She folded her hands. They were shaking.<\/p>\n
Duane sat across from me. He wouldn\u2019t look at Jenna. He wouldn\u2019t look at me.<\/p>\n
Ava sat next to me. She kept looking from her father to Jenna and back again.<\/p>\n
I opened the notebook.<\/p>\n
\u201cEight hundred and eighty dollars,\u201d I said. \u201cMissing from the tip jar. Forty dollars a week. Twenty-two weeks. March through September. I have every week written down.\u201d<\/p>\n
Nobody said anything.<\/p>\n
\u201cForty dollars a week in scratch-off tickets,\u201d I said. \u201cAt the Speedway on Bridge Street. Every Monday morning. Burt Sutherland saw him.\u201d<\/p>\n
Mike, Duane\u2019s brother, made a sound.<\/p>\n
\u201cFour thousand dollars,\u201d I said. \u201cWon on June ninth. His picture\u2019s on the wall at the Speedway. And the same week, he told me his truck needed a thirty-two-hundred-dollar transmission. And I worked three extra doubles. And I missed Ava\u2019s semifinal.\u201d<\/p>\n
Ava turned and looked at her father.<\/p>\n
\u201cThree hundred dollars,\u201d I said. \u201cI gave Jenna for her rent. At our kitchen table. Two weeks ago.\u201d I looked at Duane. \u201cWhile you sat there and didn\u2019t say a word.\u201d<\/p>\n
I closed the notebook.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd one daughter,\u201d I said. \u201cTwenty-two years old. Born in Terre Haute, Indiana, in December 2003. Whose mother died in January.\u201d<\/p>\n
The silence in that dining room was so loud I could hear the kitchen clock.<\/p>\n
Then Dolores spoke.<\/p>\n
\u201cRachel Marsh,\u201d she said. Very quietly. To the tablecloth.<\/p>\n
Every head at that table turned to look at her.<\/p>\n
Duane stared at his mother.<\/p>\n
\u201cYou knew,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
Dolores didn\u2019t answer.<\/p>\n
\u201cMom,\u201d Duane said. His voice was rising. \u201cYou knew. About Rachel. About the baby.\u201d<\/p>\n
Dolores closed her eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cHer father came to the house,\u201d she said. \u201cIn April of \u201803. Bill Marsh. He sat right there in your father\u2019s chair and told us Rachel was pregnant. And that they were moving her to Indiana. And that if we ever tried to contact her, he\u2019d ruin your scholarship.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWhat scholarship?\u201d Ava asked.<\/p>\n
\u201cFootball,\u201d Duane said hoarsely. \u201cTo Ohio University. I had a scholarship.\u201d He was looking at his mother. \u201cI got hurt the next fall anyway. Tore my knee. Never played a down.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cWe thought it was for the best,\u201d Dolores said. She was crying now. \u201cYou were seventeen. You had your whole life. We didn\u2019t want you to throw it away.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSo you never told me,\u201d Duane said. \u201cFor twenty-two years. I had a daughter. For twenty-two years.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cI thought\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cMom,\u201d Duane said. \u201cHer mother died in January. Of cancer. Thirty-nine years old. And I never met her. I never met my own kid until she sent me a letter at the plant.\u201d<\/p>\n
Dolores put her face in her hands.<\/p>\n
I watched her. Seventy-one years old. Sitting at the head of her table with her good china and her pot roast, crying.<\/p>\n
The woman who called me the waitress. Who asked if they let me keep my tips. Who\u2019d spent twenty-<\/p>\n
two years keeping the biggest secret in the family, and never once let anybody else count anything.<\/p>\n
Then Duane turned and looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cLita,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m sorry.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFor which part?\u201d I asked.<\/p>\n
He flinched.<\/p>\n
\u201cAll of it,\u201d he said. \u201cThe jar. The tickets. The transmission. Lying to you.\u201d He put his head in his hands. \u201cI<\/p>\n
didn\u2019t know how to tell you. About Jenna. I didn\u2019t know how to come home and say, I\u2019ve got a twenty-two-year-old daughter you\u2019ve never heard of, and she needs money for nursing school, and I can\u2019t give it to her out of our account without you seeing.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cSo you took it out of my tips.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cForty dollars,\u201d he said. \u201cI thought you wouldn\u2019t notice. I thought forty dollars a week wouldn\u2019t show. And I thought if I could win something big, I could give it to her and nobody would have to know<\/p>\n
where it came from.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd then you won.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd then I won,\u201d he said. \u201cAnd I gave it to her. And I lied about the truck. Because I couldn\u2019t figure out<\/p>\n
how to explain having four thousand dollars and not putting it in the account.\u201d He looked up at me. His eyes were red. \u201cAnd then you made me count. Every Sunday. And I knew it was wrong. Every single Sunday I knew.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cDuane,\u201d I said. \u201cWhy did you announce the new rule? Two weeks ago? Every dollar in the jar. You decide what I take back.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t answer for a long time.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause you gave her three hundred dollars,\u201d he said finally. Very quietly. \u201cAt our kitchen table. My daughter. And I sat there and watched my wife take care of my kid out of her own pocket. And I couldn\u2019t say anything.\u201d He shook his head. \u201cAnd I felt like such a failure. And I thought, if I could just<\/p>\n
control the money. If I could just be the one deciding.\u201d<\/p>\n
He stopped.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m not controlling you,\u201d he said. \u201cThat\u2019s what I told you. I\u2019m managing our finances.\u201d<\/p>\n
He laughed. A terrible little sound.<\/p>\n
\u201cThat\u2019s what my mother used to say,\u201d he said. \u201cTo my dad. Every Sunday.\u201d<\/p>\n
Chapter Twelve: Terms<\/p>\n
Nobody ate the pot roast.<\/p>\n
Karen and her husband left first, quietly, without saying goodbye. Mike stayed. He went over to Jenna, who was still standing in the dining room doorway, and he held out his hand.<\/p>\n
\u201cI\u2019m your Uncle Mike,\u201d he said. \u201cI\u2019m sorry nobody told you.\u201d<\/p>\n
Jenna shook his hand. Then she burst into tears.<\/p>\n
Ava got up from the table.<\/p>\n
She walked over to Jenna. She stood in front of her. The two of them, side by side. Sixteen and twenty-two. Same height. Same chin. I don\u2019t know how I\u2019d never seen it before.<\/p>\n
\u201cSo you\u2019re my sister,\u201d Ava said.<\/p>\n
\u201cHalf,\u201d Jenna whispered.<\/p>\n
Ava thought about that.<\/p>\n
\u201cI don\u2019t really do halves,\u201d she said. \u201cMom taught me to count all the way.\u201d<\/p>\n
She hugged her.<\/p>\n
I took Duane home. I drove. He sat in the passenger seat with his hands in his lap.<\/p>\n
When we got home, I made a pot of coffee. I set two cups on the kitchen table. Next to the jar.<\/p>\n
I sat down. He sat down across from me.<\/p>\n
I opened my notebook to a fresh page.<\/p>\n
\u201cHere\u2019s how it\u2019s going to be,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
\u201cFirst,\u201d I said. \u201cThe jar\u2019s done. No more jar.\u201d<\/p>\n
He looked at it. Sitting on the counter by the coffee maker. Eleven years.<\/p>\n
\u201cI opened my own account,\u201d I said. \u201cAt the credit union. Friday. In my name. My tips go in there now. I\u2019ll<\/p>\n
put my share of the bills into the joint account every month. Half the mortgage. Half the utilities. Half of everything for Ava.\u201d I looked at him. \u201cBecause I make about what you make, Duane. Some months more. And I\u2019m done pretending I don\u2019t.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t argue.<\/p>\n
\u201cSecond,\u201d I said. \u201cThe eight hundred and eighty. You pay it back. Not to me. To the joint account. Forty dollars a week. Every Monday. Same as you took it.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cOkay.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cThird. The four thousand.\u201d I looked at him. \u201cThat was gambling winnings. It\u2019s taxable income. The Ohio Lottery reported it. There\u2019s a W-2G with your name on it coming in January. On our joint return.\u201d<\/p>\n
I tapped the notebook. \u201cI do our taxes, Duane. You\u2019d have gotten caught in April anyway.\u201d<\/p>\n
He closed his eyes.<\/p>\n
\u201cWe\u2019ll report it,\u201d I said. \u201cWe\u2019ll pay the tax. Out of your overtime.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFourth,\u201d I said. \u201cNo more scratch-offs. Not one. You\u2019re going to a meeting. There\u2019s a Gamblers Anonymous group at the Methodist church on Thursday nights. I already called.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cLita, it\u2019s not a problem. It was just\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cForty dollars a week for twenty-two weeks out of your wife\u2019s tips, so you could lie about a transmission,\u201d I said. \u201cIt\u2019s a problem.\u201d<\/p>\n
He didn\u2019t say anything.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd we\u2019re going to counseling,\u201d I said. \u201cBoth of us. Dr. Ferris, on Water Street. Wednesdays. I made the appointment.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cFifth,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
I closed the notebook. I looked at my husband across the table.<\/p>\n
\u201cJenna,\u201d I said.<\/p>\n
He looked up.<\/p>\n
\u201cShe\u2019s your daughter,\u201d I said. \u201cShe\u2019s Ava\u2019s sister. She doesn\u2019t have anybody else. Her mother\u2019s dead. Her grandparents moved her away to hide her.\u201d I took a breath. \u201cShe\u2019s family. She comes to Sunday dinner. At our house. Not your mother\u2019s. Every week.\u201d<\/p>\n
Duane stared at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cAnd her nursing school,\u201d I said. \u201cWe help. Out in the open. On the books. A line in the budget. Written down. Every dollar.\u201d<\/p>\n
He started crying then. At our kitchen table. With his big paper mill hands over his face.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t comfort him. Not yet. I sat there and drank my coffee and let him cry.<\/p>\n
When he was done, he wiped his face on his sleeve. He looked at me.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy?\u201d he asked. \u201cAfter what I did. Why would you do that for her?\u201d<\/p>\n
I thought about it.<\/p>\n
\u201cBecause my mother and father counted their money at the kitchen table,\u201d I said. \u201cTogether. Every<\/p>\n
Friday. Nothing hidden. And I swore I\u2019d have that too.\u201d I set down my coffee cup. \u201cAnd because I gave that girl a black notebook her first week of training and told her to write everything down. And she did. And she brought me back three hundred dollars she never spent.\u201d<\/p>\n
That was a year ago.<\/p>\n
Duane goes to his meeting every Thursday. He hasn\u2019t bought a scratch-off since that Sunday. He paid back the eight hundred and eighty, forty dollars at a time, every Monday, for twenty-two weeks.<\/p>\n
He writes it on the whiteboard by the refrigerator when he does it.<\/p>\n
We see Dr. Ferris every other Wednesday now. Some weeks are better than others.<\/p>\n
Dolores came to our house for Thanksgiving. First time in fourteen years she let me host. She brought<\/p>\n
a pie. She sat next to Jenna at the table and didn\u2019t say much. But at the end of the night, she asked Jenna for her phone number.<\/p>\n
She\u2019s called her every Sunday since.<\/p>\n
Jenna started at Hocking College in January. Practical nursing program. She\u2019s working Friday and Saturday doubles at Gallagher\u2019s to pay for her apartment. She\u2019s in my section\u2019s rotation. She asks me questions about anatomy on our breaks, and I pretend I know the answers.<\/p>\n
She comes to Sunday dinner every week. At our house. She and Ava sit on the back porch after, talking about things I\u2019m not allowed to know.<\/p>\n
The jar\u2019s gone.<\/p>\n
I didn\u2019t throw it away. I washed it out and put it on a high shelf in the pantry. Ava found it there last spring.<\/p>\n
She took it down. She washed it again. She stuck a strip of masking tape on the front and wrote on it<\/p>\n
in marker.<\/p>\n
Then she put it back on the counter, next to the coffee maker. Where it used to be.<\/p>\n
It says: COLLEGE. AVA & JENNA. ANYBODY CAN PUT IN. EVERYBODY WRITES IT DOWN.<\/p>\n
There\u2019s a black notebook next to it now. The cheap kind, from Dollar General. Whoever puts money in writes it in the notebook. Date. Name. Amount.<\/p>\n
I flipped through it last night, after my shift.<\/p>\n
Duane, $40, every Monday. Mike, $25. Ava, $12 from babysitting. Jenna, $20, with a little drawing of a swallow next to it.<\/p>\n
And on the last page, from Sunday, in slanted old-woman handwriting I\u2019d know anywhere, because it<\/p>\n
used to sign my birthday cards \u201cDolores\u201d and nothing else:<\/p>\n
Grandma, $100. For both my granddaughters. Should have started 22 years ago.<\/p>\n
I stood at the kitchen counter for a long time looking at that line.<\/p>\n
Then I took out my own notebook. The thirty-sixth. Still in my apron pocket from the night\u2019s shift.<\/p>\n
I wrote down my tips the way I always do. Date. Shift. Total.<\/p>\n
Two hundred and twenty-six dollars.<\/p>\n
And under it, for the first time in eleven years, I added one more line.<\/p>\n
Kept: $226.<\/p>\n
I closed the notebook. I took out a twenty. And I put it in the jar on the counter, because I wanted to,<\/p>\n
and I wrote my name in the book beside it, where everybody could see.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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